Not being able to have a child of your own is not an easy thing to deal with. You might have gone for counseling at some point and thought you were comfortable with it. You get reminded of your situation when you have to attend functions where most people turn up with their children.
You will be able to find some really inspirational messages relating to your situation from any of these: encouragement words quotes for encouragement bible scriptures of encouragement
the way forward out of any situation no matter how hopeless it may seem is to have a positive attitude. You should be able to get to a point where you can talk about it openly and without fear, after all it wasn’t a choice that you made to be infertile was it. So stop beating yourself about it and using it as yard stick to measure and judge yourself by.
Probably you might have gotten to a point where you were able to accept it but your spouse has never really gotten used to the idea that he cant have children with you and that’s what’s probably troubling you the most. The situation calls for understanding from both parties and you should be willing to see each other’s points of view.
Having been in the same situation myself I will tell you that this is one situation that has no clearly defined way of being dealt with. It calls for patience and understanding by both you and your spouse. If you are ever going to talk about this subject try avoiding the house set up or environment. Go out somewhere, for a drive, a picnic where the emotions won’t be so high.
There are sites that you can log onto as often as you like and you will always find an encouraging word there whenever you feeling low. They have helped me cope with my own situation and I’m sure they will work for you too.
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